There are two parts of courage that lead to success. The first part is the willingness to begin, to act in faith, to step out boldly in the direction of your goals with no guarantee of success. The second part of courage is the willingness to endure, to persist, to refuse to give up, and to keep on working harder than anyone else.
Most people talk themselves out of even going for their dream. And most of the ones who make the attempt quit as soon as the going get tough.
It's so sad. Because everyone has the ability to make their dreams come true. It's sad that so few people have the willingness to do what it takes.
That's why as a boy I admired the Olympians.
That's why we root for the underdog. That's why we love movies like Rocky and Rudy. Because all of us have felt like the underdog at one time or another. Because seeing the underdog win gives us hope that we can win too.
That's why we admire people like speed skater Dan Jansen.
Once you get started on the road to making your dreams a reality, you must make the decision to never quit. The decision to never give up gives you a huge advantage. The person who is most determined usually wins. Heart will beat talent every time. A study on goals and perseverance found that 95% of the goals that people set are ultimately achieved, as long as the person didn't give up.
Ninety five percent! That's almost a guarantee.
A guarantee that if you refuse to quit you will eventually win. The main reason people fail is not because of lack of ability or opportunities.
They fail because they lack the inner strength to persist in the face of obstacles and difficulties.
That's why trying something almost always leads to failure. By definition, trying something means you will quit if you are not successful.
Don't worry about failing. Failing is how you learn.
You can fail over and over again, but all it takes is one big success to wipe out all your previous failures. Just like Dan Jansen in the Lillehammer Olympics. The only time you can't afford to fail is the last time you try.
You need to be bold. Once you have made the decision to never quit, it's easy to be bold. Remember, if you don't quit you're almost guaranteed to succeed.
So just assume that success is inevitable. It's only a matter of time. Act as if your ultimate success is guaranteed. No matter how bad it is or how bad it gets, learn from your failures and keep moving on.
Your goal should be to reach the point where you believe in yourself so much that nothing can stop you or hold you back for very long. You want to become unbeatable. This is where persistence is so important. The more you persist, the more you will believe in yourself. And the more you believe in yourself, the more you persist. Your persistence is a measure of how much you believe in yourself and how much you believe in your ability to succeed.
If you act as if you are guaranteed to succeed, your belief will grow. Because emotion follows motion. What you do determines how we will feel.
Act in spite of your fears and commit to not quit, and I'll promise you that the winner inside you will burst forth to propel you to victory.
When you develop your courage and perseverance, you will experience life in ways you never thought were possible. The more you practice courage and perseverance, the more confident you will become.
Don't quit. Refuse to quit and you will succeed.
Dan Jansen refused to quit and look at what happened.
Dan Jansen was supposed to win gold in the Sarajevo 84 Olympics. He didn't. Disappointed, he knew he should bring home a medal in the
88 Calgary games. But only moments before the start of the race he was told his sister, Jane had died of leukemia. With this weighing on his mind, he raced poorly and walked home empty handed. Dan had another chance in Nagano 92, but his hopes were crushed again when he slipped on the ice.
The 94 Lillehammer would be his last chance.
With the world holding its breath as he raced in the 500 meters, he fell again to the horror of the crowd, and finished eighth. With only one race left in his career, the 1000, Dan Jansen was racing for his life. Incredibly he slipped on the last turn, but didn't fall. As he raced past the finish line, he read the official time. A new world record. At long last Dan Jansen's perseverance paid off. Finally he had won the Olympic Gold Medal. On his victory lap, he carried his baby daughter on his shoulders.
Her name is Jane. After his sister.
Dan's story is so inspirational. It makes us feel like we can't fail. It teaches us lessons in courage and perseverance. It has been said, "The Honor should not go to those who have not fallen; rather, all Honor should go to those who fall and rise again."
That's why we love Rocky, and Rudy, and the Olympics.
The Olympics are not really about sport. The Olympics are about the power of the human spirit. They are a place that showcases to the world a group of people that were willing to go after their dreams no matter what.
The Olympic flame represents the fire in the heart of someone who is in pursuit of their dream. At the
2002 Salt Lake City Olympics Opening Ceremonies, Mitt Romney, the CEO of the Olympic Organizing Committee faced all of the athletes and said to us, "Athletes, you are proof to the world that when you have a dream, and you pursue it, and you refuse to quit, dreams do come true. After the Olympics it is your responsibility to teach that philosophy to others.
Teach them how to make their dreams come true.
And let's make this world a better place."
So have the courage to go after your dream. Give it all you've got. Have the courage to get started and have the courage to never quit. I guarantee you, when you do, your life will become great!
Ruben Gonzalez is the author of the critically acclaimed book, "The Courage to Succeed" and is featured in the movie, "Pass It On". His experiences as a three-time Olympian, entrepreneur, and professional keynote speaker give him a unique perspective on how to conquer the corporate struggles of today. For more details about his services and products, go to:
"http://www.thelugeman.com"
